Love is a complex emotion that can be triggered in many different ways. However, there are some parallels between alpha males and the way they fall in love. Alpha males are typically very confident and know what they want in life. When it comes to love, they aren’t afraid to go after what they want. They also have a strong sense of self-awareness and understand their own strengths and weaknesses. This allows them to be open and vulnerable with their partner, which is key for any relationship to succeed.
What is an Alpha Male?
In an article titled ‘How to Deal With an Alpha Male in a Relationship’ on marriage.com, Jenni Jacobsen defines an alpha male in the following statement [Source]: Typically, the alpha male is depicted as a top-ranking man within his social circle. He is competitive, and he dominates over other men. Compared to others in the social hierarchy, the alpha male is more powerful, wealthier, and better at winning over women.”
This means that an alpha male is a real man in society and an exemplary man that all men admire.
What makes Alpha Males Fall in Love?
According to HerWay, “An alpha male chooses a woman similar to him. She has to be powerful enough to handle him. He doesn’t want a woman who will be in his shadow and follow him blindly” [Source]. An alpha male is usually attracted to a feminine woman who is also described as the real lady and appears to be mature when it comes to her mindset. Alpha is very specific in his plans and visions, so he only pursues a woman he knows he can co-exist with without conflict. Because of this, he only dates women who possess the appropriate qualities, making it simple for an alpha man to fall in love. Others argue that the alpha male does not just fall in love on his own but is influenced, inspired, and attracted to certain characteristics possessed by a woman.
There are some characteristics a woman must have to make alpha men fall in love. The first one is femininity, and since alpha males are masculine, they tend to look for “complementary traits in a woman”. This fulfils the popular phrase of a prince looking for his perfect princess among all the girls. Femininity is an internal aspect that has nothing to do with physical appearance or anything outside. A woman must not be afraid to show her femininity as this attracts the alpha male.
Also, an alpha male falls in love if he finds a woman with self-confidence because “A man with high self-esteem will also want a woman with the same trait. He will not be attracted to a woman who thinks poorly of herself”. To fall in love with an alpha, a woman should be intuitive and not show her dominance but possess subtle energy.
An alpha male falls in love with a woman who is a high achiever because he is also a high achiever [Source]. Also, he loves mysteriousness, and he appreciates surprises, spontaneity, and independence from the woman. A woman can win the heart of an alpha male by supporting all his dreams and encouraging him to achieve all that he desires.
A woman who wants to please an alpha male and make him fall in love with her should try to match his intelligence and, to some extent, be prepared to show a certain degree of perfectionism. This woman should also be ready to experience some arrogance, especially when the alpha is making a point or encouraging her to achieve more in her life. Another way of taming the alpha male’s heart will be to allow him to be dominant but take charge from time to time. A woman must not be afraid to pursue her interests or speak her mind. The alpha male will give in after seeing all the traits he likes being shown by a woman. He will fall in love easily as long as the woman has all the necessary qualities.